Planning a Hawaii destination wedding. When you’re tying the knot at a faraway location, it’s hard to know what’s the proper thing to do as far as etiquette is concerned. What about the kids, your budget, invitations – and even your spouse? There are lots of issues to address. We have etiquette tips you’ll appreciate below.
Even if you know certain guests can’t attend, send an invitation anyway. It’s important to make your closest friends and family feel included, even if they can’t attend because of work, budget, or other reasons. Considering today’s advanced technology, no one will feel left out if you create a video or photographs and share them via social media or your own wedding website.
Give potential guests plenty of time to plan. When you’re getting married in Hawaii or any other far-off destination, it’s important to let everyone know well in advance. Send out invites 8 to 12 months before your wedding day if possible, so guests have plenty of time to save up and plan for the trip.
Don’t neglect your spouse-to-be! It’s easy to get caught up in all of the excitement, especially when you’re getting “hitched” in an exotic or tropical location. Keep your soon-to-be spouse first and foremost! Take a walk on the beach at sunrise or sunset, go together to get pampered at a spa, enjoy a long and leisurely breakfast in bed. Take the time to pamper your soulmate!
If kids are invited, make sure they’re entertained. Does the destination have access to water parks or camps? Find out what there is for the kiddos to do, and have board games available. You might also want to plan a scavenger hunt, or have a member of your group (or a babysitter in the area) take care of the kids during critical times.
Only invite guests to pre-wedding parties and events who will be invited to the actual wedding. Mixing guests is a recipe for hurt feelings. Don’t do it!
Know what your budget is, and plan accordingly. Going way over budget will leave you stressed after the wedding, when you should be enjoying your role as a newlywed.
If it’s within your means, guests will be thrilled with the gift of an all-inclusive (lodging, transportation, airfare, etc.). If it’s not within your budget, don’t stress about it. Do make sure to have a block of rooms reserved for your guests, and find out about all of the transportation options so guests won’t feel completely lost when they arrive.
Planning a Hawaii destination wedding? If getting married on the beach, at sunset, or even at sea is your idea of a dream wedding, Hawaii Weddings offers all this and more, along with wedding packages suitable for every desire and budget.