If you’re planning a Hawaii destination wedding and intend to tie the knot on the beach, at sea, at sunset, or even under a romantic waterfall, there are a few do’s and don’ts you’ll need to be aware of to make sure everything turns out perfect for your dream wedding.
First of all, the Do’s
DO choose a wedding package or a planner. Planning a wedding from a distance isn’t easy; choosing a package or hiring a planner with experience in the area who can work with vendors on your behalf makes it much easier.
Mail invitations well in advance. When your wedding will be held at a remote location, guests need time to book flights and accommodations. Send out your “Save the Date” cards or invitations three months in advance, so your guests will have ample time to make plans.
Make plans for guests for the weekend. Many Hawaii beach weddings take place over a long weekend, and you don’t want your guests to get bored – after all, if it’s their first time to the locale, they won’t be familiar with the area. Plan a fun event or two so your guests are entertained and have a good time.
Leave a unique welcome at the hotel. Sunscreen and bug spray are two good ideas for a beach wedding and warm weather – but ditch the Evian bottled water, as the hotel will likely have water in the rooms. Or, simply leave a personally handwritten note for each guest to enjoy as he/she arrives, it will make your guests feel welcome.
Now for the Don’ts
Invite hundreds of people. One of the things that makes a Hawaii destination wedding so special is the intimacy; the fewer people you invite, the more everyone who DOES come can enjoy excursions and other events. Most couples simply can’t afford to entertain 200 or 300 people, and having a smaller group of 30 or 40 makes it possible for everyone to mingle, engage in conversation, and generally have a good time.
Spend a small fortune on flowers. The beach is a natural setting, providing its own beauty. While a small bouquet of native flowers or leis is fine, leave the elaborate floral arrangements for more formal or fancy church weddings.
Leave guests to figure out how to get around. You wouldn’t want to be left in an unfamiliar city without transportation; left to your own devices to figure out where the celebrations and events are. Don’t do that to your guests, either. Whether they’ll get around via shuttle or car, create a schedule of events and give it to the hotel to hand out to your guests, along with transportation (shuttle, bus, car, etc.) pick-up and drop-off times.
Ignore an indoor location if the weather’s volatile. When getting married on the beach, you never know what the weather might bring. Have a backup plan for an indoor venue so your special day won’t be spoiled should the weather not cooperate.
At Hawaii Weddings, we offer a wide array of wedding packages for those who dream of a Hawaii beach, sunset, or waterfall wedding. Make your life easier, and enjoy the wedding of your dreams! Contact us today.